One of the biggest blocks many of us have is around our sexuality. When we have doubts about our sexual nature, it reduces our self-esteem, fostering insecurity and doubt. This is as true for women as it is for men. And it’s just the beginning. When our feeling nature is blocked, we can’t enjoy life to the fullest. Sexuality can be a source of stress, rather than a beautiful joyous exploration.
The thing is, even with a loving partner, it can be hard to get past these blocks. Unconscious sexuality is performance-based, rushing to orgasm rather than losing ourselves in sensation. We can so easily get in our heads, wondering if we’re doing it right, if we’re good enough. We can worry about our technique, whether or not our bodies are responding as they should, all sorts of things that interfere with the experience.
This is why it’s so beautiful to work with a Bondassage professional. When you have a Bondassage session, you work with an experienced professional whose entire goal is to help you reach your full capacity for pleasure. During the massage, they hold space for you to feel and to surrender to this feeling. You can just let yourself open to the sensations. There’s no right or wrong way. There’s no goal. The experience can just take you wherever it takes you, and wherever it goes is exactly right.
Some benefits are obvious and tangible. After a session with a tantric therapist, your stress levels will be lower. You’ll sleep better. The quality of your orgasm improves and you’ll develop greater control over your climaxes. Plus, you’ll find that you have fewer issues around impotence, premature ejaculation, or the inability to orgasm, if these things have challenged you in the past. And, as your sexual energy and drive become stronger, your self-esteem and confidence will improve as well. And all this, though quite a bit in itself, is just the beginning.
Going further, Bondassage helps you to slow down and feel the sensual experience. It helps you tune in to your body and build sensation, breathing it through your body. This is the tantric aspect of Bondassage. The massage is an opportunity to deepen your understanding of what your body likes, how it enjoys being touched. It helps you learn to expand your pleasure through the breath, to bring sexual energy from your genitals throughout your entire body. And, most powerfully, it can teach you the practice of the body orgasm, of turning your sexual energy inwards and building it until it becomes almost overwhelming.
After feeling this for yourself, you can then bring these techniques into your sexual experiences with your lover. You can work on slowing it down, playing with the sensation. But it takes some practice. It’s so easy to speed things up with unconscious sexuality. To go faster and rush to orgasm. When you work with a Bondassage therapist, you learn to relax, breathe, and feel. It helps you learn to drop expectations or thoughts of performance and drop into the body. After even a couple of sessions, you’ll find a profound shift in your love life. And, as you go further, you learn to expand joy and sensation into all of life’s experiences.
There’s only so much that can be understood by hearing about it. The real thing is to feel it. So, when you’re ready to experience the transformative effects of Bondassage for yourself, reach out.
In love and light,