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Feb 062020
Healthy Power Play - Where's the Line?

Hey folks, and welcome to 2020. In many of our past articles, I’ve shared some of the practical things you can do to explore kinky play with your lover.  Everything from blindfolds to ice cubes, and more.  But there’s another side of it that deserves just as much attention.  This is the emotional side. When […]

Dec 012019
Season's Greetings!

Happy silly season, folks. It’s the holiday month again, and 2020 is right around the corner!  Seems to rush by a bit faster each time around.  And each year around this time, I find myself reflecting on the past year and considering the journey ahead. What kind of year has it been for you?  What […]

Oct 012019
Bondage and consent

Let’s be honest, people.  50 Shades of Grey gets it wrong in loads of places.  But, one of the best things that it has done for us is to bring the subject of BDSM to the table.  It has opened the door for everyone, regardless of how adventurous – or how vanilla – they might […]

Aug 012019
Tantra and BDSM – a perfect match

I recently had a friend ask if I ever mix BDSM and Tantra.  I realised that this is a great question, and one that I wanted to explore further with my clients and readers.  On the surface, it might seem like an unlikely pairing.  Tantra is connected with spiritual sexuality, while BDSM is more about […]

Jun 012019
Kink is a key to a healthier life

There are lots of elements to health.  Diet, exercise, sleep levels, social connections, the list goes on.  But one of the biggest parts of health has more to do with our minds than our bodies.  Psychological health is about being open to new experiences.  It’s about being less afraid of rejection and less paranoid about […]

Apr 042019
7 pro tips for sharing an unforgettable Bondassage experience with your lover

It’s incredibly exciting to bring some variety and kink into the bedroom.  Bringing some delicious new sensual play into your experience can breathe new life into a relationship or bring an already awesome intimate connection to new heights of delight.  But this can be intimidating, too.  Where do we start?  If it’s new territory, it’s […]

Feb 052019
The benefits of working with a Bondasssage professional

One of the biggest blocks many of us have is around our sexuality.  When we have doubts about our sexual nature, it reduces our self-esteem, fostering insecurity and doubt.  This is as true for women as it is for men.  And it’s just the beginning.  When our feeling nature is blocked, we can’t enjoy life […]

Dec 012018
Exploring Taboo to Deepen Self-Love and Connection

So, we’ve touched upon this before, but it deserves a little reminder.  Have you ever imagined being tied up while your lover teases you to the very edge of ecstasy and beyond?  Thought of a delightfully firm smack on the ass between sexy stimulation?  Maybe you’d like to be on the giving end, tying your […]

Nov 032018
A Look behind the Curtain

We’re coming close to the end of the year, and I’ve been reflecting on all the changes that the year has brought.  So, I decided to do something a little different with this article and give you all a peek into the inner workings of my business. I’m blessed to be able to do work […]

Sep 032018
Sexuality: Breaking the age limit

There seems to be this unwritten assumption that as we get older, it’s time to stop being sexual or sensual.  That we should put our sensual selves and desire nature on the shelf and start acting like “mature older adults”.  What a load of crap! Maybe you’ve been married for a long time, and things […]