Whether you’ve explored that kinky, edgy side of your sexuality or not, it’s there. We all have it. Those hidden desires, those spicy little fantasies. Some curiosity or interest that we might never even talk about. A little ripple of excitement at the thought of a blindfolded sensual encounter, of tying your partner and torturing […]
Bondage has been part of the sex life for people all across the world for hundreds of years. But for many, it has been considered taboo, kept behind closed doors and spoken of only in a whisper. Thankfully, that has been changing over the last few years. Odds are, if you haven’t gotten a bit […]
I love to live my life as a continual opening, a progressive expansion. This means pushing the boundaries, feeling out my edges and pushing past them when it feels right. Recently, I moved past one of my edges in a really beautiful way, and I’d love to share it with you. One thing I’ve been […]
Regular self-pleasuring is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves and our relationships. And all too often, there’s a stigma of shame and guilt around it. Society may have taught us that masturbation is immoral, or unhealthy. This programming is more than just wrong – it can be actively damaging to our relationships […]
How naughty have you been this year? Really, delightfully, unbelievably naughty? I sure hope so. And if not, why not? What are you waiting for? Think back on all the delicious sexual adventures you have had this year. What’s been left unsaid, and what’s been left undone? Have you been left breathless, taken to the […]
How do you like your bush? Neatly trimmed? A triangle or a runway? Completely clean shaven? Or absent entirely? Have you ever thought about it? So many young women and men feel pressured to remove their body hair. Modern media and the porn industry depict sexuality with hairlessness, but this wasn’t always the case. Body […]
Erotic spanking is one of the most natural ways to enter the world of BDSM. It’s a great way to bring a new sensation into an intimate experience, to introduce a bit of playful pain and heighten the experience of pleasure. And it’s easy. All you need is a hand and a buttock and you’re […]
What images come to your mind when you hear BDSM? For most people, the answer is whips and chains, blindfolds and paddles. Those who view it from the outside might assume that BDSM is weird and abusive. This couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s about trust At its core, BDSM is about trust. It’s […]
We live in a busy world. Lots of pressures, lots of demands, and it can be easy to get caught in a cycle. Rushing from one thing to the next, and thinking about what’s ahead the whole time. On top of that, since we were young, we’ve been surrounded by “shoulds” and “ought tos”, things […]
This is a topic that’s close to my heart, one that I’m glad to be able to share with you. One reason is that on the surface, tantra and BSDM might be seen as completely different ways of exploring ourselves and our sexuality. Another is that there’s a hunger for this knowledge in the BDSM […]