Does your lover know what you really like? What gets you excited or drives you over the edge? Do they know your fantasies and those little sexy thoughts that flit through your mind? Have you told them? This can be really challenging for some of us. We have been raised in a culture that sees […]
Do you remember Sex Ed the way it was taught in school? The way I remember it, there were long lectures on the dangers of sex and the need for abstinence. Scare tactics, exaggerated statistics, discussions on disease and abortion. It left many of us feeling that sex was somehow bad or wrong. At the […]
Kink is exciting. It can spice up an already juicy sex life, and bring a spark back into the bedroom when the fires have been growing dim. Many couples are interested in exploring how BDSM can rev up their sexual experience, but it can be hard to know where to start. Many of us have […]
Surrender. What does it make you think of? A battlefield? An argument? In this busy ego-driven world, surrender is a bad word. We don’t give up. We push ahead. Take control. Keep ourselves under control, and try to extend that to every facet of our lives. But what if we’re missing something? To surrender means […]
Every different tool offers its own unique sensation, from floggers to fur, feathers to scarves. Sensation play is an opportunity to let your creativity flow and see what happens. And you don’t need to spend loads of money on your play—you can find heaps of interesting and fun sensation tools around the home. Here are […]
We’re all a bit curious about the shadow side of sexuality. BDSM is the art of bondage and discipline, dominance and submission. Due to the stigmas surrounding it, BDSM has been practiced secretly for centuries. Only now is it beginning to gain some acceptance in more public circles. But psychologists now recognise that the exploration […]
Merry Xmas, everyone! The holiday season has rolled around again, and it’s time for celebration, enjoyment, and play on every level. Time to remember the beautiful times you’ve had through the year and make some new special moments. Here’s my present to you: a few tips to deepen your play and arouse excitement. They may […]
Relationships are as unique as the people that form them. No two are alike. We all have different needs, desires, boundaries, and goals. Our relationships are a reflection of our own personal needs, which is why we seek someone we are compatible with. Even though every single connection is individual, we all share certain needs […]
New relationships are always exciting, particularly when it comes to sex – you’re both feeling frisky and fornicating wildly at any opportunity. It is only natural that this level of sexual intensity wanes, but that doesn’t mean a long term relationship can’t have the pleasure of passionate sex and trying something new. Thinking kink can […]
When it comes to mainstream attitudes to bondage, kink and BDSM, there’s a lot of misinformation out there. 50 Shades of Grey may have us convinced that BDSM is mostly about handcuffs, blindfolds and getting tied up and spanked – but in truth, there’s a lot more to it than that. It’s time to bust […]